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Helping families help themselves

Uwe Schneider, journalist and entrepreneur

Berlin / Potsdam / Usedom

Published with the author's permission. The text, received on 2 October 2026, was factually corrected with his agreement and lightly proofread. It reflects the author's personal views.

Translated by Clarvia from the German original. Read the German original

There are moments when fate strikes without mercy. Losing someone you love is hard to bear, especially when they are among the people closest to you. Whether the death was expected or came suddenly, it leaves a deep gap in our lives. All at once, we find ourselves facing a task that can feel almost insurmountable.

There are sometimes people who can offer a little help and well-meant advice. But alongside a profound loss come administrative and organisational responsibilities: dealing with authorities and insurers, and making arrangements with hospitals and funeral directors. For someone who is grieving, this can feel almost impossible. It is made harder by those in and around the funeral industry who are willing to treat bereaved people primarily as a source of revenue.

Under these circumstances, finding space to grieve with dignity is difficult. That is why it is so welcome that Clarvia.org now offers access to a nonprofit association helping to make life a little more bearable for bereaved people, free of charge. Clarvia provides practical guidance on administrative and organisational questions and helps families understand the next steps and take them themselves. Even in the hardest hours, Clarvia.org helps people keep a clear head and find more room to grieve in their own way. Human kindness when it is most needed, helping people find their own way forward.

It is good to see young nonprofit associations working towards a situation in which everyone benefits.

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